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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 6, 2009 18:10:34 GMT -5
Do you like any of these things? If so, which one? Can you tolerate?
I won't take anything else but dear, everything else seems too degrading. Dear is borderline, though.
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Post by Prototype on Aug 6, 2009 20:29:59 GMT -5
Well if you mean nicknames then I don't really care
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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 6, 2009 21:12:31 GMT -5
Yeah, like the one your mom or older people like to give kids and teens
honey
dear
sweetie
sweety-pie
and the other ones.
My least favorite is sweetie. I feel like hurling a very large rock at them everytime they call me that.
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Post by Prototype on Aug 6, 2009 21:14:38 GMT -5
Well i don't really like it when my parents call me some pet names, but I don't care if my friends call me by nicknames
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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 6, 2009 21:21:35 GMT -5
Well, No, I don't actually mean ordinary nicknames like Elizabeth as ellie or liz, at all. I mean the special ones, you know the cute ones. Really, I don't find them cute at all, I find them degrading.
Oh, I thought of a few more.
cutey
sweetheart
baby (unromantic)
Well, some friends like to use them as well, but... I find that quite disrespectful as well. My old friend liked to call me honey. I felt like smacking her everytime she said that.
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Post by Prototype on Aug 6, 2009 21:23:58 GMT -5
Oh no. I don't want anyone calling me a pet name, except maybe my gf
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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 8, 2009 10:56:23 GMT -5
Yeah, you do kinda have to make aexceptions for them, now don't you?
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Post by Krazicky on Aug 10, 2009 23:15:16 GMT -5
Yea, he does.
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Post by Scarecrow on Aug 15, 2009 9:17:46 GMT -5
there are some people who habitually call everyone "hon". If they were just doing it to me, I'd flip out, but since they say it to everyone, I tolerate it.
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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 16, 2009 21:51:55 GMT -5
Oh, I forgot about that one. Yeah, same here. However, at most times, society calls for politeness, so I pretend to be okay with it, but cringing inwardly.
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Post by Scarecrow on Aug 16, 2009 22:23:45 GMT -5
I'll tell 'em to stop. but politely. well, as politely as possible when you're commanding someone to do something.
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Post by Raging Rachel on Aug 17, 2009 0:44:30 GMT -5
Yes, I know, I ask them, if I could. Sometimes, they won't listen, and sometimes I know they won't be nice about it.
Fortunately all of you are really friendly on here, and I mean it, but not everyone is that friend unfortunately, and those are the toughest people to deal with. And, if you notice, kind folks like you all on here, never have to call each other han or honey. So, usually it's the other kind.
I hate dealing with them, but...
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